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Dee Dee Said
Feb 44 min read
Understanding Trauma Bonds
A view from the bike at sunrise. In the last post , I wrote about my struggle to leave, and then stay away from, a dating partner who was...
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Dee Dee Said
Jan 223 min read
Getting off the Roller Coaster
A view from the bike at sunrise. As an adult, I found myself in an unhealthy relationship. When we first met, and got to know each other,...
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Dee Dee Said
Jan 84 min read
Choosing a Positive Change
A view from the bike at sunrise. Several weeks ago, I wrote a post about riding my bike in the morning at sunrise. It’s enjoyable during...
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Dee Dee Said
Dec 11, 20243 min read
God’s Embrace
While on a recent morning run, I noticed a large shell I hadn't seen before. I picked it up, carried it home, and set it on the kitchen...
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Dee Dee Said
Dec 5, 20243 min read
The Christmas Tree
When I was growing up, my family always had an artificial Christmas tree. I thought it was small, and other than the lights, there wasn’t...
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Dee Dee Said
Nov 28, 20242 min read
Feeling Grateful
Romantic relationships have been an odd journey for me. As a teenager, I survived an abusive dating relationship ; my college boyfriend ...
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Dee Dee Said
Nov 20, 20244 min read
The Most Dangerous Time
The Breakup and up to Two Years after are the most dangerous time in a relationship - even if it hasn't been physically abusive. Warning:...
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Dee Dee Said
Nov 13, 20244 min read
Why Don’t We Help?
Last month a woman in my community went missing. The night she disappeared a neighbor saw the woman and her husband arguing in the...
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Dee Dee Said
Nov 6, 20243 min read
I Gave it a Try
Two mornings a week, I like to ride my bike at sunrise. I choose sunrise because fewer cars are on the road at that time of day, and it’s...
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Dee Dee Said
Oct 30, 20243 min read
The Golden Bachelorette
Recently I turned on the Golden Bachelorette with a bit of hesitation. Honestly, I had one hand on the remote, so that if drama started...
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